We have only not much normal spot for party farming and now we cant use party leader only  for have some distribution

I wanna distribution of loot at least in turn as minimum:c 
i play as Shai and some spots for me like hell and i play with my bro 
sometime he help me with some embers or like that because he have much more attack damage than me in the same gear and with less gear too he have more damage

i love bdo but it looks like solo farming for solo farming i don't like solo and wanna loot like in turn 

The correct design is actually not group areas, but rather a system which gives a slight benefit to grouping.  Part of the problem with BDO is 99.999% of your power is Gearscore and nothing else matters.  Thus gaining exp or SP in a party is meaningless.  The reason for actually removing group spots is organic parties.  However, this would also require a major revamp of the entire game world.

You can also make dungeons this way by simply creating open world dungeons like Aakman.  They don't need to be instances or have objectives.

I'm partying every single day in another game without ever using a party finder or dungeons.  The reason is because it wastes ZERO time ever.  I simply go to a grind spot and if there are other players we almost always create a party.  Completely organic and time effecient.

In an MMO when you come across other players you party and join up.  In BDO when you see other players in a grind spot it's just a terrible experience.  You are HOPING no other players are in the area.

The reason why party spots do not work is because the efficiency of players is so terrible it's not even worth trying.  You will waste so much time waiting for people to be ready other people will now be AFK and not ready anymore.  I go to a grind spot and immediately hunt ALWAYS.  If there are other active players then we immediately start grinding together.  This would require making it so you can't AOE 1 shot half the game world though.

You can do Oluns but you need a certain gear score for it, for this reason you can also tag a normal dps character till you can get to that gs. Can also do the Tunkuta with your bro, its a 2 man spot. If you really want to group grind only, no matter what gs, you can also do 5 man Upper Gyfin but you will need 3 more aside from your bro. So join or look for a guild that does upper 5 man gyfins regularly. 

So your gear progression at Tuvala'ish will be upper 5 mans > Tunkuta once you have enough AP/DP > Oluns > D Oluns > D Oluns 2 for end game.

Go to Adventure > Monster Zone Info > Search for these zones to see the AP/DP caps and progress accordingly. Good luck.

The only time i exver experienced this in this game was in 2017 when Sausans was still the meta grind and required groupind. You could show up there and people would invite you to their group if it wasn't full.