#1 Make PVE servers and do not limit them to season and olvia. Probably half of the servers should be PVE only. 
#2 Bring back 1 sided guild wars, but allow them only on regular servers, and not the PVE ones.
#3 Lower flagging punishment drastically. (If people do not want to get attacked they can live on the PVE servers.)
#4 Make the new (zerg and last hit) NW system only apply to Balenos and make it t1 only.
#5 Bring back 30 man nodewars, both capped and uncapped. These nodes used to have 8-20 guilds dropping on them every day in EU, more guilds than now participate in the entire new nodewar system.
#6 Add Siege-only alliances. Where guilds can do their own content during the week and only work together during sieges. This way you enable small scale nodewars and sieges at the same time, without having 150 man alliances that are forced to drop on large nodes. 
#7 Allow multiple tags, or even better, make universal weapons so people can play more classes. (This would also increase people buying weight/inv etc from the store)
#8 Just fix shai tagging, change the sol to a normally enhanceable weapon so it's not a giant pain in the ass. 
#9 Add more group pve grind spots. The last 3 spots added were Oluns v1, v2 and v3... This is obviously bad. People want to grind with their friends, give them options.
#10 Instead of generic maids showing up, allow people to make their alts appear when they call a maid. Also allow people to put their alts inside their manors/houses. (bonus point to reach 10, but how cool would that be?)

Yeah, just the list with all things that people asked for last years and developers just ignore us.  I only  didn't get  the 10th, alts appear? why? i even don't care about current maids, its like 1 sec and done, I don't look at them at all =)

Also I would add a few things  I want a lot.

- new high end super hard and useful treasure, like  merchant  ring in 2020, when we even didn't know exactly where to get some pieces. 
- 100 floor tower  asap  and with decent rewards on each floor,  like from tuvala to 800gs, it should be rewarded challenge, like even people with 800gs should try hard on the last floors. Something like  hard prince but for solo.

- shadow arena.

can't make your maid wear a bikini or shelle belle wipeout (or your zerker if you swing that way lol)

Basically instead of a random maid it would be one of your customized chars showing up in a maid/butler outfit. And also you would be able to place ur chars as furniture in your houses similar to Lost Ark. 

with the underwear toggle switch working for them all

all of them together will not change anything.

I coudl get my wife to come back if we had PVE only servers! She was tired of getting griefed to much lifeskilling.

How?  Where? Why? How?   Wait.  Did you say Griefing on lifeskills? did I read right?  LIFESKILLS???????     How? Where? How??? =)))))) Do we play the same game? Black Desert Online?

Just what a game with dead PvP and low player interaction needs....more segregation and pve only servers, with no means to defend a spot.

Lifeskillers still dying in 2024?

They deserve to at this point if they can't make an alt 49 or use safezones.