Even if you tell them all this, I am quite skeptical something's going to change. I once considered making a topic, which should be less heated and more positive. Well... There has to be always at least one person, who wants to either derail the topic, to troll or simply speak his own mind in a negative way(which contributes to a derail too). In other words, I began a topic and ask something, another types something different and on top of that with inappropriate words at that. When I saw the first two and last several words, I saw what this was about. I didn't bother replying since it would turn to a mess and instead decided to do something else about it. :)

Edit: I've even seen several people only whining and spreading negativism, because of that therefore they contribute with nothing, but empty words. It's very easy to sit somewhere from afar and criticise and when one's time comes to do anything(the critic) he does nothing.

But is this really different from any other MMO forums?

Besides having a discussion is what a forum is about, to discuss the game. I think you both wrong in your analysis.

Am not talking about trolls etc, there are everywhere.

Well, we even have some trolling champions who chose to come back under another name to be able to keep on trolling so... In a way, that's the sad reality of such a forum, I guess.

The game breeds and caters to toxic and trash behaviours, you are constantly reminded to show off spending money on useless stuff, braging about pixels and such.

What a shock, virtue dosen't prevail here, let's face it, they get what they deserve.

Thanks.  Yeah, certain topics here can get pretty "passionate", I'll just say.

For me, I play mostly solo and have an amazing time in BDO.  I really love it for what it is, I go in, do my thing, don't bother others, and usually don't get bothered.  My focus, right now, is gear progression, so I can do that completely solo and it's great.

"just play the game like a decent person with respect for one and other"

^ As much as I love this quote of yours and agree 100%, I simply cannot convince myself that others will hold the same opinion.  It'd be great, but I don't think it's reasonable thing to expect some people to do.

opinions only matter if they are reasonable and grounded with arguments. some of the dev decission are a clear wrong of what you learn in a school for gamedesigners. this forum is low populated and it is too late anyways.

PvP scene died out, there are only gimps and whales and hackers around. i rather play smite with a team of drunken russians as playing rbf, where shieldclasses hide bhind the range classes and support classes never even try to heal.

they will also fail with the new 1v1-3v3 arenas, like they always fail.

I learned that so called "karmabombing" is a myth.

And how is this relevant to this topic? There are other threads about this discussion. Can you do me a favor and don't start this banter even here?

It's clear you hate BDO. You say you love BDO. Yet make huge deals trying to convince the devs to change BDO to only suit you and the Top 5% of players. Move on there are genres of games that have what you seek. The MMO genre is not that.

If you are so passionate about your view point that you are willing to throw tantums on the forums like a child. Maybe you should start a kickstarter project for a MMO that suit your desires.