think the fun is gone now finaly got past time quest witch was not easy move on to killing scarecrow the game stop there there no fun in that so looks like i stop here

Interesting

The scarecrows always spawn in the same 4 spots and can double spawn in the same spot. I'm stuck at the horse taming quest. Do i need to return to the npc with the tamed horse or without it? 

edit:you can return without it

any tips on how to get all 25 scarecrow down in the 3 mins i was only getting lime 15 to 18 done

Tip for Creats is to move a box to just before the bridge if you go to far can not pick it up again then you start the timer run to the box pick it up  also use a speed meal

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as for the first quest, you have to park your horse at the last stop, even then you probably gonna ends up with less than 5seconds if you do it perfectly.

as for the 2nd quest, you have to use a musket

i used a begginner +5 gun. the scarecrows always spawn in the same 4 spots and they can respawn in the same spot but only once. 
1st quest in the chain you park your horse near the house where you need to sweep the chimney on
3rd quest tip is to find the horse first and then accept the quest. you don't have to return to the npc with the captured horse
4th quest you just use oasis map pieces and regular map pieces
5th quest you hug the left bridge rail and run without participating in the minigame.

The only hard part is crab, need people to post up at a point or something.

Crab is not hard at all. Just walk straight up to the right hand side bridge railing and walk along on the railing. ;)